Saturday, March 24, 2012

Life is Beautiful :)

I kept on congratulating her. What else should I say when my best friend break the news of her engagement on the phone. I was overwhelmed and speechless for a moment. Indeed, I have never been this happy for someone else. Smiling like a mad lady and offering chocolates to my mother had just made her to question my sanity more.:P A very heartfelt congratulation to her. And now after reading this line, I would like you guys to pray for her happiness. She’s someone who is very important to me. Please do that for me okay? :D

On the other hand,24th March is my late cousin brother's birthday. He would have turned 25 this year and only God knows how merrier it could be if he still alive. It would have been a double celebration as my brother's wedding is just around the corner. But life doesn't promise a bed of roses, bad things happen and death is something than we can never run away from.

Anyway, I hope he's doing whole lot better over there, having fun at the other side of the world. All through his life, he had been a good son, a good brother, a good friend and not forgetting an awesome lover to his girlfriend. Time flies and now it’s almost three years already even though it just seems like yesterday for us. We lost him due to a plane crash and even now when the aeroplane crosses the skies all that flashes through our mind was him and his dream of becoming a pilot. We all had been waiting so eagerly for the day he comes home waving his pilot licence to us but then I guess we weren't that lucky to have him a bit longer in our life.


A very happy birthday brother,you are dearly missed almost everyday..



Yes your favourite little sister is all grown up now..and do you know that our ‘S’ has started to play piano and she's just so awesome with it..a lot of things had change bro, but I cant never forget all that moment that we shared together.Life is all messed up but every now and then I see yourself in the kindness of some strangers. When life brings me down, I know you are always there watching me over and catch me when  I'm  just about to fall..I wonder how it will be if you are still alive :')...


Apart from all that,24th March is also the day I took up blogging seriously..
so in a way its my blog 's birthday too ;)

In fact, I received my very first comment a year ago and yes it was from Poonam of course ;)


32 comments:

  1. Well a congrats to your friend :) It's never really easy to deal with loss, but you're doing quite the good job. As long as he's remembered he's never truly gone.

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  2. janeman,
    i don't know, the pain in your words is so evident that i can't, even though i am making a serious effort to congratulate you on your moving on because you haven't .
    but i won't console you and say X, y and Z coz someone who is going through all these hard times knows that it actually doesn't counts. all i wanna say is
    i am with you. :) always
    and all the best for the wedding preparations :)
    god bless..! :)

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    1. Awww..suvy :') thanks a lot for your words...and thanks for being with me..

      Allah bless u too :)

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  3. Death is merely a process of changing your clothes. We all have to do it. It's hard coming to terms with the no-longer-existing person in your life. Your cousin brother looks extremely sweet and happy, and to see you moving forward would probably add to his happiness.

    Best wishes to your best friend who is to tie the knot soon!

    And I'm so glad you think this is a blog-birthday and not a blog-anniversary.

    Happy birthday to your blog. In a way, happy birthday to you again.

    :)

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  4. wow. a very meaningful entry and i somehow find it quite pathetic. anyway keep strong, it is hard to bear the feeling of losing though it has passed for years.

    and the date seems to be very significant to you :)
    am wishing my very best wish to the bride and groom to be and to you as well :)

    have a great weekend :)
    do tell us about the solemnization :)

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    1. Thank you so much..the date is very very significant for me :)
      will update more here :)

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  5. So many things to happen on a single day, and what's more? To remember them with the same fondness like fresh roses.

    Congratulations to you, for a comment anniversary, good wishes for your friend, and peace to your late brother.


    Cheers,
    Blasphemous Aesthete

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    1. Fresh roses..nice :)

      Thank you very much BA

      God bless u :)

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  6. mixed feelings....i am sure your brother is happy. wherever he is, seeing you grow into a mature lady...

    congrats on your blog's anniversary and best wishes to your friend :)

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    1. Yes he is I suppose..Im growing up without,that's hard but manageable :)

      Thank you very much for dropping by :)

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  7. I dont know wot to say u after i read ur post... Memories can bring back the ones who are far away from us... Whenever u think of ur brother he is with u my dear... He will be so happy in the other side of the world seeing his sweet little sister singing b'day song for him... He wont be happy if u r sad... so make him happy with ur smiles

    Congrts to ur frnd and lovely wishes for her... & yaa cngrtzz on ur blog anniversary... All the very best my dear :) tc

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    1. aww.this is a very sweet comment..Thank u so much Anjali..Yes I'll be happy for him :)

      Thank you again for the wishes,:) God bless you :)

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  8. Sigh. My chance to give you a hug. I want to say things but I feel that it will just not be enough..

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    1. Hugs dear..Your hugs is more than enough for me..Thank you very much for reading :)

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  9. *hugs* girl. God isn't the kindest one I have known in my life, but he has his reasons :(

    Love and Kisses....

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    1. Yes dear..He has his reasons

      Much love and hugs :)

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  10. This is such an adorable post. The loss of a near and dear one tugs at our hearts forever, and ever. You get a tight hug right at this very moment. :*

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    1. awww..thanks for the hugs..you had been missed here :*

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  11. Loss is never easy to cope with but as you say he is never far away, his soul is with you always. What is hard are the memories, thinking what would have happened if.....but in front of death we are helpless. May God heal your heart dear sis.

    On the other side, the announce of your friend engagement is a great news - life is like this, hard things, happy things. As long as we keep faith, we are fine.

    Take care sis, sending a hug and my love.

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    1. God is always here Marie..healing my wounds

      Yes its a great news..life balances up itself this way..:)

      Take care too..replying your hugs with millions of smiles

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  12. Congrats to your friend and her engagement.

    Congrats to you one-year anniversary (seriously blogging).

    Sorry about your cousin's brother (sleep in peace).

    Continue blogging.

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    1. Thank you very much Peaches :)
      you too continue blogging :)

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  13. Your life indeed is beautiful. :)
    MashaAllah. :)
    My prayers to your friend, your family and your late brother, and to your blog. All the best.

    <3

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    1. Thank you so much ...life is indeed beautiful with little things like this :)

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  14. happy life to your friend..and i wish you too live happily :)

    and i always wondered why your blog is so special..now i know the reason... it shares its birthday with me :P

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    1. Thank you Israr..yeah I know that ,..I wished for u at suvy's place :)

      24 march is a good you see ;)

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  15. Brought tears to my eyes....

    As much glad as you are to once have him as your brother, I am sure as much proud he must be from wherever he is to see so hopeful.

    May happiness never leave your side

    Stay Blessed ^_^

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  16. Thank you very much for your kind words,may happiness be urs too

    Stay blessed S :)

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