Okay the big news is that my brother’s wedding is coming soon, First of all it was really an uphill battle to convince my brother to get married. Everyone in the family got so excited but I am somehow being nervous because they’ll be another person sharing the same house soon. It’s pretty awkward for me but anyhow this is not the first wedding in our family. My sister was married years ago when I was a little kid, but it happened long ago,so the whole marriage thing is kinda vague for me.
We went to the bride’s house last night and somehow I felt all the attention drawn towards me. Maybe because I’m the groom’s little sister and maybe by being nice to me ensures that their daughter will be treated well in future. I would say that’s not even an issue after all and anyways, even when they don’t treat me well, I will still have no problem with my future sister in law as I’m someone who minds my own business and I am girl too nah?
But anyhow I did enjoy all the attention and extra care that they paid towards me. I never know being in the groom side would be so much fun. But the most amusing thing that happened was when I saw my brother being so shy for the first time in my life. Gosh, I never saw him in that way. Generally speaking, he’s is quite a serious type and strict too, sometimes I find it quite hard to talk to him when he’s is in bad mood. Our conversation doesn’t even last for more than five minutes.
Maybe a marriage could reveal the better side of someone. Hmmm.. On the other hand I could see my future sister in law sitting there so nervously especially when she’s surrounded by all my cousins and all the aunties were concentrating on her hair, her appearance and so on. I felt as though all the eyes that were staring at her have some kind of imaginary assessment box ( the kind that we use to have on the cover page of our test paper) where they constantly tick whenever the criteria’s are fulfilled. (Oh my God, arranged marriage is so freaking scary) Nevertheless, my cousin sisters had a good time teasing and joking with her. The marriage will be due in six months and all the preparations are going ahead time.
Hope all’s well ends well too. May this marriage last for a lifetime. God Bless them and I secretly wish that mine won’t be an arranged one because I find the whole arranged marriage thing to be quite scary as you have to please everyone and apart from the groom’s approval ,you might also need the nod from your husband to be's little sister. Not everyone can be like me right? Some people just love to mess up with other people’s business..:/