In life, we are always screwed up things!
End up doing the right thing at the wrong time and the wrong thing at the right time.
We are still hanging with people that we hate and at the same time, messing up with those people that truly cares for us!
Fortunately, I have learned the lesson which is obviously through the hard way.
(Remember a lesson is repeated until it is learned)
Based on the rise and falls (more falls than rise actually!!) that I experienced in my life, there are some rules that you can live by actually!
After all life is what we make of with.
Rule no 1: Follow your intuitions
Trust me, they are always right. There’s no better guide than your own instinct.
The tiny voices that comes straight from your heart could save you from almost anything!
Sadly, we always underestimate and tend to ignore those warnings and end up in regrets!
Rule 2: You don’t have the rights to judge any!
No one has the rights to judge anyone.
Basically we don’t have the rights to judge anyone and it really does make our life less complicated as we don’t have to waste our energies on thinking about how others should lead their life and at the same time worrying about how people are thinking about us!
Rule 3: Patch up with your enemies
Seriously, I’m saying this by my experience!
Since the world is so small, most probably there’ll always be a second meeting with your enemies!
It happened to me once! I mess up with a guy and after a few months he ends up being my supervisor .Really had a hard time working under his supervision as it was really a payback time for him. As the saying goes, keep your friends close and your enemy closer! Ask for forgiveness before it's too late ;)
Rule 4: Say the truth,always!
Say the truth and it will set you free.
Khaled Hosseini once wrote in his book (The Kite Runner) ‘When you tell a lie, you steal someone’s right to the truth’ These words are so true.
Everyone deserves to know the truth and it easier this way
....and most importantly you don’t have to cover up your lies.
Rule no 5: Parents always right,!!!!
If you think they are ever wrong refer back to rule no 5.
The only people who does not want any harm to befall us are our parents. So trust them.:D
Rule no 6: Respect failures
Although you can’t accept defeats or failures, but never under estimate them as they have the capacity to change your life forever.Respect failures and always admit your mistakes!
Rule no 7: Everyone has their piece of cake
There’s no need to rush or feel envy of others as everyone has their piece of cake and if its meant for you ,no one can take it away from you.God is always fair enough but that’s certainly not an excuse to forget the hard work part!
Rule no 8: Expect less and hope more!!!!
When there is no expectations there’ll be lesser disappointments.
Most of the time, the expectations to be happy is what making us not happy after all.
But never lose hope J
Life is much more easier this way!
P.S: I don’t know whether this rules work out for everyone but it certainly does for me!