Sunday, March 30, 2014

Friendship in marriage

I watched English Vinglish last night and I think Sri Devi totally nailed it when she gave a speech on marriage to the newly wed.

This marriage is a beautiful thing. It is the most special friendship. Friendship of two people who are equal. Life is a long journey. Meera, sometimes you will feel you are less. Kevin, sometimes you will also feel you are less than Meera. Try to help each other to feel equal. It will be nice. Sometimes... Married couple don't even know how the other is feeling. So... how they will help the other? It means marriage is finished? No. That is the time you have to help yourself. Nobody can help you better than you. If you do that... you will return back feeling equal. Your friendship will return back... Your life will be beautiful

Meera... Kevin... Maybe you'll very busy... but have family... son... daughter. In this big world... your small little world, it will make you feel so good. Family... family can never be... never be... never be judgemental! Family will never... put you down... will never make you feel small. Family is the only one who will never laugh at your weaknesses. Family is the only place where you will always get love and respect. That's all Meera and Kevin... I wish you all the best. Thank you.

I personally think if you adhere to these words, life will be more beautiful despite the ups and downs that comes your way. 

I think marriage is for life. :) 

The word divorce can never separate two hearts.

6 comments:

  1. I loved how hesitant she sounded when she made the speech. And then the confidence grew, enough to make every word resound. And the message is so true, family is the only place you get to be yourself, with all your faults and all your flaws.

    Thanks for reminding me again of this beautiful movie :)

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    1. Thank you for your comment. Sri Devi really acted well in the movie. It felt genuine and real :)

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  2. So true right!! Friendship needs to be the essence. If it is, then ego would never find its way.

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    1. Exactly.Friendship in marriage is very essential :)

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  3. Very True!!! Hatzoff to Sri Devi for her wonderful acting and yes family is the most important precious thing one have in his/her life!

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  4. Yes Angel is my best friend too and I share things with him nobody tells their husbands..but i do

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