Monday, January 23, 2012

Love,as I know it

Perhaps, the greatest joy in life is to be in love and to be loved. In my case I never had a chance to have it both. When I’m in love, I can’t be loved and when I’m being loved, I just can’t be in love. Nevertheless, love knocks many times in my life. Sometimes, it comes through the main door and no doubt I welcomed it with an ear to ear smile. At times, it sneaks in through the back door, giving me a nightmare and trouble my sleep but most of the time love prefers to peek me from outside my window and left as soon as it hears me saying ‘Better luck next time’. Some say it could be lust,some blame it on infatuation and all of its kind, but then what does real love means? Waiting for him to respond for 10 years and still hoping that he will one day? I’ll rather call it optimism than to give it the love badge. Or is it like the one depicted in movies where the hero smack the villain’s head and finally wins out the dream girl of the town? I’ll call it something else. Or it just the testosterone and estrogen playing hide and seek as claimed by the bald professor guy next to me? I have come to a point that I don’t know what love means anymore and to be exact I’m not really sure whether true love still exist or not. But its just too obvious that right now there’s a bunch of Indian mothers sitting cross legged, staring at their finger nails and telling me ‘Let us handle your love story honey, you just have to pick up your wedding gown. Everything else assured’. That freaks me out, but for now let the ‘DO NOT DISTURB’ sign hang on my doorknob a little longer, yeah a little longer.




27 comments:

  1. its awesome and goody...good luck

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  2. No one does that. Its our holy Grail.
    And it is better to not know what it is. May be it would lose its charm...when we can exactly define what it is. :P

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    1. Hmmm..holy grail huh..Well,I would like to unlock the charm one day..maybe it'll sound more charming then :P

      Take care

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  3. Love, Love, Love, no words to define it. But you recognize it when it comes, thought you never know when Love is going to show up.
    Take care..........xx

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    1. yeah,but not any sooner I guess..;)
      You too,take care Marie xoxo

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  4. No other emotion creates as much confusion as love does.
    "When I’m in love, I can’t be loved and when I’m being loved, I just can’t be in love." Loved this line of yours. Enjoy till it happens to you coz you may miss the yearning later :)

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    1. Awww..Thanks you..glad that you enjoyed those words scribbled from heart :P..yeas enjoying pretty much..I hope I do get a chance to yearn happily for this :)
      thanks dear for dropping by

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  5. Interesting. This post is making me think too much (lol). I could be a philosopher and try to explain love or I could just try to stay in love or think I am loved. I'll try to feel that I'm loved and that I have loved. Still thinking...

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    1. Ahhahah..now you make me (lol) and yeah that's the beauty of love I guess..it makes you to think and the think more but the answer is nowhere..but its always FUN to think ;)
      take care Peaches :)

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  6. u sound to have trouble with love. anyway love is not just about relationship :P

    very good sharing, little bit amusing :D
    and the picture really LOL

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  7. You dont know..how much I love the word trouble :P and yeah love is more than relationship :)

    Thank you boy,thanks google for that pic

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    1. u're most welcome. and thanks for listing me :) >.<

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  8. Even i wonder sometimes if there still exists any true love around, because i just see a comprimise in the name of true love between the couples. Love sometimes seems complicated, beyond our imagination because of the cheaters in love disguise. Sometimes it also makes me wonder if all the so called love marriages are really filled with any love at all. No one knows except God i think :)

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    1. Exactly..for some life is a compromise for them and we never know what happen behind those four walls..some might not be as happy as they appear to be..again only God knows..thanks for your insightful thoughts Elvirah..

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  9. Tell me also when you get to know..I can't keep count of the number of guys I've obsessed about even though I know I don't give shit about them..but still..I think its oestrogen :D

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    1. Hahah...Well If I got know one day,i'll sure post it on my blog :D High Five on that 'cant keep count' part..Gosh i guess now we have to agree with that bald professor guy next to me :P..and def its estrogen :D

      thanks for dropping by :)

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  10. I agree with you, not sure if there is love at all :) But I love the cartoon, I can imagine myself saying this years later to my shocked wifey :)

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    1. Hey..dont say that to your future wife..not good not good :P
      Hope you'll find the meaning one day..I'll take years I guess :)

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  11. yeay yea. finally im listed ! hihi. do tell your readers to read mine ! hahah.

    i do envy your readership T___T

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  12. Yay!! and now you are on my reading list :D..I just updated my reading list..:)

    and I envy your readerships too and a lot of other things too ;)

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  13. -.-

    i dont see anything about me that you should be envy of. haha
    anyway, thanks again. i feel honored :)

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  14. Such a balanced post.The point describing a decade year long wait as optimism is indeed profound and true too to certain level.I have always felt, love is no more but a feeling of satisfaction, satisfaction that we have company when we need.

    ~ Chintan

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    1. You said it well Chintan.yes maybe all we want is a companion..it could be in a selfish way at times..thank you for reading :)

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  15. Everyone is writing about love, I guess :D Well, to be honest, consider yourself lucky for not finding that person till date. Stay away from this feeling as much as you can. Not because it is bad, but once you are into it,(in love and to be loved, as you say) you just cannot step back ! Cheers :)

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  16. Hahah..hmmm..lucky huh..in that case..i am indeed very lucky :)
    you are soooo right Man!!

    Cheers :)

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