Sunday, January 15, 2012

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How is it feels to be forgotten? When someone decides to tear your page off from their book called memory? When all you can do is watching them in horror as they crumble your page and threw it over the roof. You stood there,motionless,wondering what went wrong that makes it painful for them to even remember you . It seemed that deleting you from their life is the best thing that they could do for themselves.I guess it hurts especially when we're left without a reason. Aren't we all deserve an explanation? On the contrary,what if someone forgets you unintentionally? Like Anita suddenly becomes the vague image of a girl who wore big glasses during high school. That's it! You no longer have a name,all you have now is a girl with big glasses. Eventually one day,without doubt Anita will soon be forgotten,no more big glasses,she will just be the invisible girl behind the class that nobody knows.I don't know which one hurts more,forgotten by someone intentionally or unintentionally.Maybe it's all depends on the person who forgets you but I know a thing for sure that I died a little when someone forgets me,I die again and again when someone kills me in their memory. Here I am with a warm coffee on the table and hands on my chin wondering how many people had killed me in their memories and how many people that I had killed so far?All I'm asking is forget me not. Will you do that for me?


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  1. Even I have no answer to what hurts the most? whether forgetting intentionally or unintentionally..

    I do know it hurts the most when a person who though not promised, but had assured you that will keep the words given which you had believed with all might.

    and the feelings are crushed, dumped when one day suddenly come to know you mean nothing to them as if never existed.

    I know have ranted a lot over hear.

    And as for you sweetheart, YOU'LL NEVER EVER BE FORGOTTEN <3

    Awesomely idiot, loved the post :D

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    1. Exactly dear :)especially when someone assured you

      you have all the space to rant here
      and thanks for the remembrance ..Im glad to have u here always :D

      awesomely idiot,always ;)

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  2. I think the forgetting intentionally part hurts more. It shows that you were a significant part in the other person's life which you could not play well.
    But yes I believe that it all depends on the person who forgot...

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  3. Awesome, for how you have expressed something so natural and true....
    it hurts and hurts really badly when out of the blue you are forgotten, journey from "someone" to "no one" is simply cruel!

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    1. thanks usama..it hurts..badly and when someone you know suddenly bcm someone you knew ..:(

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  4. Maybe we can take comfort from the fact that even though someone may have erased us, we are - what we were.

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    1. seemed like a consolation but agree no matter what we are what we are,always..no one can change that :)

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  5. Sometimes, you travel far and wide just to know that what you had initially is what was meant for you. It's never late to start again, and deleting someone from the mind by tearing the page and throwing it as a crump? Nay, make an airplane and let them fly, who knows, the planes do come back. :)


    Cheers,
    Blasphemous Aesthete

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    1. hey you are here :)
      make an airplane and let em fly ...well,i hope my planes always come back..I smiled after reading ur comment :)

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  6. It hurts a lot, and it hurts the most when you don't know the reson why someone did such a thing to you.

    Sometimes things become normal again and sometimes they don't.

    Hope your life changes for the better

    Stay Blessed ^_^

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    1. Thanks n..well i hope so..hope to see u around here :)

      stay blessed :)

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  7. Sometimes, it's best to be forgotten than being remembered by people who no more matter in our life...

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  8. Its always better to burn out than to fade away, no?
    Some remember you, some don't. For some, your existence ceases to be.. that sucks more than anything!

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    1. its always better to be burned than to fade away
      trust me,that really sucks!!!

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  9. very brilliant thought and post. i agree with you. being left with no reason is devastating esp when the one who left us used to be our closet pal or mate. how sad to digest it. and just to let you know that you are still fresh in my memory and i shall not delete you as long as i am not senile LOL :P

    stay connected malaysian mate :)

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    1. thanks a lot boy..and its really sad when you put your
      thoughts into it..and arent u the sweetest now..? thanks for remembering me..in that case i shall remember u always too :)

      stay connected always :)

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  10. Being thrown out for no reason really should suck.
    But staying in sucha person's life is pointless too.

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  11. I like your deep thoughts - this post allows us to think about what matters.

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    1. Thanks a lot,little things like this matters a lot :)

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  12. It is one of the ironic things ever! but people often do that! Forget you!

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    1. Yesssssssss..and I guess I forgot many ppl too :|

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  13. If people forget you, it def means they were never meant to be a part of your life.. :) atleast thats what i feel.. loved the thought provoking post :) :)

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    1. Hmmm..maybe they are never meant ..Thanks a lot for dropping by :)

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  14. Well, look at things positively: if someone forgets you, chances are high that that person is incapable of forgiving you. So here's your opportunity to forgive. At least you'll do something better in return, won't you?

    :)

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    1. I suppose but forgiving is harddddd..thanks for dropping by Mr destiny child

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  15. Loss never becomes easier, always hurts, always there.

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    1. Loss is inevitable...thanks for dropping by Mughal

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